“ur not a real couple if u dont argue everyday”
???? no???
thats really unhealthy???
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- in any relationship really. not just romantic ones
- like. i get it when people say stuff like 'real couples argue!! it's normal!!' bc some people only have 'honest' conversations when arguing
- like. i've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years now and i don't remember actually having fights??
- so. tl;dr people say 'arguing is normal' when it's actually more like 'being open about your feelings and expectations is v necessary'
- we're very open about what bothers us and that leaves no room for resentment or anger to build up between us
- which is sad bc when you're arguing there's honesty but with anger and resentment behind your words?? and then it hurts everyone involved
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